Film 'Nobody Loves Kay' Bridges Parent-Child Dialogue
Film ‘Nobody Loves Kay’ is not merely entertainment but a medium for reflecting on family relationships in Indonesia. The main cast hope the film can open up healthier dialogue between the younger generation and parents, particularly regarding differing views on dreams and life choices.
Former JKT48 member Nurhayati, known as Ayastrophile, said the film is designed to bridge generational understanding.
She explained that a gap often arises when a child’s dream is deemed unrealistic by parents, especially in new digital-era professions.
“If a child has a dream, don’t immediately judge it; parents could try to understand and monitor,” Nurhayati said on Thursday (28 May).
Similarly, young actor Bima Azriel stressed that Nobody Loves Kay’s narrative does not aim to blame either side. The film portrays parents’ concerns as human, but they need to be communicated properly.
Bima noted that parental fears often stem from unfamiliarity with the prospects of their child’s chosen profession. Therefore, the film’s key message is the courage to start honest conversations at home.
“Children must have the courage to talk about their dreams, while parents should be open to listening and supporting. It’s not about giving up or outright banning, but mutual support,” Bima said.
Through this collaborative effort, Nobody Loves Kay aims to help young people pursue their aspirations with parental blessing and full support, without feeling pressured by rigid expectations. (Ant/Z-1)
Actor Bima Azriel shared behind-the-scenes stories from Nobody Loves Kay, including Mobile Legends workshops and delving into the lives of esports athletes.
Psychology lecturer at Gadjah Mada University, Theresia Novi Poespita Candra, emphasised the importance of parents developing listening skills for healthy relationships.
Psychologist Gisella Tani Pratiwi stressed the importance of proactive parental roles and understanding Government Regulation No. 17 of 2025 in protecting children online.
IDAI (Indonesian Pediatric Association) urges parents to watch for red flags when choosing daycare, from health facilities to suspicious changes in child behaviour.