DKI Reminds that Safe Humour Does Not Degrade
Jakarta (ANTARA) - The Child Empowerment, Protection, and Population Control Agency (PPAPP) of DKI Jakarta Province has reminded the public that safe humour or jokes are those that do not degrade or objectify someone’s appearance or body.
“If someone feels uncomfortable, it is no longer just joking,” said Evi Lisa, Head of the Women’s Empowerment Division of the DKI Jakarta PPAPP Agency, in a podcast themed “From Kartini to Civil Servants: Building a Safe, Equal, and Supportive Work Ecosystem” in Jakarta on Wednesday.
She reminded that much violence or discomfort starts from things considered small, like jokes. Therefore, the public must be aware of their limits.
“It’s not about the intention of joking, but the impact. A joke can be categorised as problematic when it objectifies or harasses someone’s body, appearance, or sexuality. Even if wrapped in humour, it can make someone uncomfortable, offended, or even intimidated,” she explained.
Then, if someone experiences such a joke, they should immediately set firm but elegant boundaries without being confrontational.
“For example, ‘That seems a bit sensitive. Can we avoid that topic? I’m not comfortable with that joke.’ Those are sentences that can be conveyed in a light but firm manner,” said Evi Lisa.
She also reminded the public not to normalise jokes that belittle or contain elements of sexual harassment. According to her, staying silent or laughing along can be seen as agreement. Instead of staying silent, one can simply not respond or change the topic.
Furthermore, build a culture of mutual reminders in the office or community. Evi Lisa said it is important to have an understanding that humour should not degrade.
“Everyone has the right to feel safe. This can be reinforced through organisational values or codes of ethics,” said Evi Lisa.
Next, focus on education rather than shaming the person who makes sexist jokes. For example, by inviting them to discuss it personally.
“Many people are actually unaware that their jokes have an impact like degrading or intimidating others in society,” she said.
Then, if someone around experiences, sees, or hears violence against women and children, the public can access services at the Provincial Women’s and Children’s Protection Centre in Jalan Raya Bekasi Timur kilometre 18 Pulogadung, or the Jakarta Alert 112 help centre.
In addition, direct services are also available at Complaint Posts in 44 sub-districts, integrated child-friendly public spaces (RPTRA), and some flats.
“So every sub-district in DKI Jakarta Province has one complaint post, and there are also counselling and paralegal service personnel available. All access to services from the DKI Jakarta Provincial Government is free,” said Evi Lisa.