World AIDS Day
World AIDS Day
People do not need guidance -- they need awakening, thus spoke J. Krishnamurti, a well-known Indian philosopher.
True to the above statement, The Jakarta Post, in commemoration of International AIDS Day on Dec. 1, had extensive coverage on AIDS and gave refreshing insight into this deadly disease. Isn't it better to tell the bitter truths behind AIDS?
The article dealing with detailed instructions on how to use a condom properly, effectively, indeed raised one's eyebrows -- nevertheless, it was highly instructive!
A view has been expressed in the paper's columns that instead of promoting the use of condoms in red-light districts, we should try to eliminate prostitution. Well, this suggestion is idealistic. The reality is that prostitution is the oldest- practiced profession the world has ever known. We just can't wish it away, though concerted efforts must still be made to improve moral behavior in society.
Under the existing circumstances, it would only be prudent to educate prostitutes and sex-workers about the dangers of free sex and AIDS. Prostitutes in their own interest, as also in the interest of the community, must insist that their clients use condoms. This is the paramount need of the hour to stave off the AIDS disaster that is attacking humanity.
Sex is an inborn urge. After all, God meant us to enjoy sex, according to a British bishop who authored a marriage manual. But AIDS is solid proof to substantiate the fact that liberty without discipline can only lead to absolute anarchy.
AIDS can affect anyone, anytime, in any place on earth. Even a highly moralistic person, despite due care, may fall victim through possible negligence of medical personnel in clinics and hospitals.
In the olden days, sex outside marriage was tolerated as an individualistic act. But now the situation has thoroughly changed and it goes beyond individuals. When individual behavior starts affecting society there must be some restrictions.
Such careless behavior has very grave implications not only to the person concerned but also to his family, society and the country at large. He just can't be unconcerned about the avoidable risks he is exposing the society to.
Let's wake up to the reality that AIDS is evil. We should do everything possible to control the situation, both collectively and as individuals. The catastrophe that has befallen the human race can be checked only by regulating our conduct.
I'm calling on all men -- please, common sense dictates that we exercise restraint. Let's realize our responsibility towards our family that the society we live in.
D. CHANDRAMOULI
Jakarta