World AIDS Day
World AIDS Day
People do not need guidance -- they need awakening, thus spoke
J. Krishnamurti, a well-known Indian philosopher.
True to the above statement, The Jakarta Post, in
commemoration of International AIDS Day on Dec. 1, had extensive
coverage on AIDS and gave refreshing insight into this deadly
disease. Isn't it better to tell the bitter truths behind AIDS?
The article dealing with detailed instructions on how to use a
condom properly, effectively, indeed raised one's eyebrows --
nevertheless, it was highly instructive!
A view has been expressed in the paper's columns that instead
of promoting the use of condoms in red-light districts, we should
try to eliminate prostitution. Well, this suggestion is
idealistic. The reality is that prostitution is the oldest-
practiced profession the world has ever known. We just can't wish
it away, though concerted efforts must still be made to improve
moral behavior in society.
Under the existing circumstances, it would only be prudent to
educate prostitutes and sex-workers about the dangers of free sex
and AIDS. Prostitutes in their own interest, as also in the
interest of the community, must insist that their clients use
condoms. This is the paramount need of the hour to stave off the
AIDS disaster that is attacking humanity.
Sex is an inborn urge. After all, God meant us to enjoy sex,
according to a British bishop who authored a marriage manual. But
AIDS is solid proof to substantiate the fact that liberty without
discipline can only lead to absolute anarchy.
AIDS can affect anyone, anytime, in any place on earth. Even a
highly moralistic person, despite due care, may fall victim
through possible negligence of medical personnel in clinics and
hospitals.
In the olden days, sex outside marriage was tolerated as an
individualistic act. But now the situation has thoroughly changed
and it goes beyond individuals. When individual behavior starts
affecting society there must be some restrictions.
Such careless behavior has very grave implications not only to
the person concerned but also to his family, society and the
country at large. He just can't be unconcerned about the
avoidable risks he is exposing the society to.
Let's wake up to the reality that AIDS is evil. We should do
everything possible to control the situation, both collectively
and as individuals. The catastrophe that has befallen the human
race can be checked only by regulating our conduct.
I'm calling on all men -- please, common sense dictates that
we exercise restraint. Let's realize our responsibility towards
our family that the society we live in.
D. CHANDRAMOULI
Jakarta