'I have the chance to reflect'

'I have the chance to reflect'

Idul Fitri will be celebrated by Muslims around the world on Nov.
14 and Nov. 15. It is a time to ask forgiveness from family,
friends and colleagues, to give and receive new clothes and to
eat traditional dishes. The Jakarta Post talked to some city
residents about the meaning of those days to them.

Mala Aprilia, 22, is a student at the University of Indonesia
in Depok. She lives with her parents in Ciputat, South Jakarta:

Idul Fitri is a time for me to get together with other family
members and seek forgiveness. I can visit my relatives in Bandung
or just walk around my neighborhood and meet my neighbors.

However, the most special thing about Idul Fitri is that I
have the opportunity to contemplate during Takbiran (Idul Fitri
eve). I usually remember what have I done in the previous year
and figure out what I should do next year until Idul Fitri comes
again.

Suhari, 45, is a soccer coach at several schools in South
Jakarta. He lives with his wife and two children in Pasar Minggu,
also in South Jakarta:

I have been so busy coaching in different schools every day
that often I don't get home until late. During the Ramadhan and
Idul Fitri holidays, my activities are reduced drastically. So,
the Idul Fitri gives me the opportunity to be closer to my
children and to show them that I love them.

I usually give them anything they want, such as new clothes,
toys and books. I can never be that close to them on other days.
Of course, I can also show the same attention to my wife.

As a native Jakartan, I keep special traditions when
celebrating Idul Fitri. I enjoy visiting my relatives or
neighbors' houses to ask for forgiveness and exchange cookies and
meals during the holidays. -- The Jakarta Post