How would you do to stop student brawls?

How would you do to stop student brawls?

Monique Natalia, Contributor, Jakarta

In some parts of Jakarta, stones flying and kids running
around waving machetes and knives are not unusual sights. This is
how bad student brawls have become. Six mall-goers try to find a
solution to this seemingly never-ending problem.

Anggi, 16, South Jakarta: I've never actually been involved in
a student brawl, but I have often seen students, especially high
school students, fighting with each other, particularly around
the Lebak Bulus area. Fortunately, kids from my school never get
involved in student brawls.

I think what people need to do to stop student brawls is to
try and make more friends outside of their own schools. Most kids
only hang out with kids from their own school. When they go out
and meet kids wearing a different school uniform who so much as
look at them funny, they get really annoyed and some even start
calling each other names, and they usually end up getting in a
fight. So, I think it would be better if kids tried to hang out
with kids from different schools.

By doing that, they would know that there are some people out
there who are nice too, not just people from their own school.
The good thing is that when they become good friends with people
from a different school, they wouldn't want to do them any harm,
right? So they would try to stop a brawl, if one did break out
between their school and their friend's school.

Another thing that parents could do to stop student brawls is
take their kids to see victims of student brawls. You know, just
take them to the hospital where the victims are and just let them
see with their own eyes how bad the consequences are of getting
into a fight.

Also, they should encourage their kids to be more religious
and get closer to God. They have to realize that it is a sin to
hurt other people, even if you do hate them.

Intan, 17, South Jakarta: My driver often has to get his son
out of jail because of his involvement in student brawls.
Sometimes he also gets caught carrying sharp objects, like
machetes and what have you.

Another kid that lives just across the street from me got
beaten up once by kids from another school. I don't know why, but
I just know that it is not right to beat up someone just because
you have a grudge against them. It is also no use getting
involved in student brawls.

I think one thing that can be done to stop student brawls is
to hold some kind of a gathering of different schools, you know,
like a friendship gathering or an event with a central theme of
peace. It could consist of music, art shows, dance, just
something fun so they forget about their rivalry.

Schools should also give lectures and training about how to
control their emotions. By learning how to control their
emotions, they could also learn how to avoid getting into a
fight. The government should also implement a policy that gives
harsher punishment to kids involved in student brawls.

Now, when kids get caught in a student brawl, they only have
to go to the police station, call their parents and have the
parents pick them up, without spending even one night in jail. I
think they also should be put in special rehab centers. I think
the government should take this problem more seriously, because
the consequences can be very bad.

Sometimes it even victimizes people who aren't even involved
in a brawl. Like one of my relatives, for example. One day he was
slashed with a machete by kids from a rival school just because
he was wearing the uniform of his school. I just wish that all
these student brawls would stop, because it's hurting innocent
people.

Bintang, 18, South Jakarta: I don't really know any victims of
student brawls, but I have seen student brawls either on TV or on
the street. It is really scary. Before I went out today, I saw on
the news that there had been a student brawl. I think some people
died as a result. It's just so sad.

I think sometimes people not involved in brawls also get hurt.
All the brawls are pointless. They are no use to anyone and only
hurt people, so I really think something has to be done to stop
them.

Another bad thing that comes out of all these student brawls
is that people become more suspicious of students in uniforms.
Like what I saw on TV just now, there was this guy who was just
carrying a stack of books walking along and suddenly he got
busted.

And for what? It turned out that the cops saw that he was
wearing a belt and thought that it could have been used as a
weapon. I mean, he was wearing glasses, for God's sake! So now
people see kids wearing school uniforms and they think we're
criminals. It is so unfair!

I think the only way to stop the brawls would have to come
from the person's own conscience. They have to realize that
student brawls are a bad thing and that they need to be stopped.
Even if they go to rehab centers and what have you makes no
difference if they do not believe it themselves. It has to come
from the inside.

That's not to say that what the government is doing, like
busting people carrying weapons and objects that can be used in
fights, does not work. I guess it works up to a point. At least
if there were more weapon searches by the police, people would be
afraid to carry weapons, so it could prevent them from hurting
people.

Deta, 14, South Jakarta: When I went to Bakti Mulya school,
every Friday and Saturday I used to exit the school gate to see
students from another school fighting in front of our school.
Fortunately my school did not get involved, but nevertheless it
was pretty scary. I used to wonder what really made those guys so
angry at each other.

What if an innocent person gets hurt?

I have also seen students chasing a bus with stones and knives
and whatever they could get their hands on because students from
a rival school were on the bus. It was really scary. I just hope
that no one got hurt.

I think the only way to stop student brawls is to get those
kids who are always involved in brawls together, and give them an
understanding about the dangers and consequences of student
brawls. You know, how they can hurt innocent people and stuff.
From what I know, student brawls usually start from name calling,
so I think these kids need to be told that all schools are the
same so that they stop calling other schools bad names just for
the heck of it.

Another thing that could be done by the government is to beef
up security in areas where there is a tendency for student
brawls. They should have more cops patrolling those areas. Not
only to break up the brawls but to prevent them from happening.
Because just telling the kids what they should and should not do
won't work without the help of the authorities.

Michael, 14, South Jakarta: Once I was in my car on my way
somewhere and suddenly there were people throwing stones at other
people, and not long after that I saw kids running with machetes
and knives. I was in the car so it wasn't really that dangerous,
but it was pretty scary. I just felt that the whole thing was so
weird, I mean what were they doing all that for?

Once I saw a stone hit a window of a passerby's car, but he
was scared so he just drove away.

I think most brawls happen because of jealousy and also
misunderstanding. But it shouldn't happen. We are all alike, why
do we have to fight?

I think to stop all the brawling, first we need to find the
source of the problem of every brawl. You know, what really makes
them fight.

I know that it would be hard, but there are schools that are
notorious for brawls. We could start from those schools. You
know, get the rival schools together and get them to discuss
their problems and help them find a solution to their problems.

I just think it would be better to get them to talk about
their problems and solve them in a friendly discussion, or
anything that didn't involve violence.

But if we cannot stop them, the government should provide
tighter security so the brawls do not hurt innocent people.

Danang, 17, Central Jakarta: I think the biggest problem we
have concerning student brawls is the problem of uniforms. Here
everybody has to wear a uniform. The main idea is good, which is
to narrow the gap between the rich and the poor, but all these
different uniforms give away school identities.

I know that there are schools that have been rivals since who
knows when, and for these schools it doesn't take a real problem
to ignite a fight. All it takes is just one look at the rival
school uniform and they are at it. I know someone who got beaten
up just because he was in school uniform walking by the wrong
place at the wrong time.

That's why I think we should be given the right to wear
whatever we want and definitely no uniforms. Without uniforms,
school identities wouldn't seem as strong and people would not be
recognized and judged by which school they go to.

If that's not possible, I guess uniforms are OK too. But
uniforms should be the same for everyone, with no difference
whatsoever, including badges. You know, how even though all high
school uniforms are blue and gray but each school makes the
students wear badges with the name and location of the school.

And maybe, if the government has enough money, metal detectors
could be installed in schools, like what we see on TV (at U.S.
schools), so that kids cannot go to school carrying weapons.