Hooliganism, not racism
Letters from Mr. Ross Gulliver and Mr. Zatni Arbi (The Jakarta Post, Aug. 3 and 5, 1995, respectively) touch a raw nerve in me. Yes, life is indeed hard times.
When sari-clad Indian women go to a market here, they also get remarks such as nahi, nahi from passers-by. If I go with my family and happen to hear these words, I smile and cheerfully wave at the people who make these comments. I tell my folks, "See how popular Indian movies are in Indonesia." Thus, a problem gets converted into a pleasure!
If we were to take this matter too personal, mind you, it can certainly affect our mental balance, at least for a short while. The idea behind such persons' acts is to invite a reaction and make you suffer in the process. Isn't that who angers you, conquers you? No, don't ever give in to them. Adopt a "Take-it- easy" policy. If we react, they have clearly succeeded in their attempts. By ignoring their comments, haven't you cheated them as well?
But, tell me, can the behavior of some ruffians on the road tantamount to racism? I believe it is downright hooliganism or, let us say, teasing -- nothing more. It is perpetrated by a few disgruntled elements in the society. Young blood, envy, improper upbringing, group behaviorism -- all these factors combine to make them do these impetuous acts. In all fairness, no deep hatred or willful animosity can be attributed to their behavior.
Furthermore, let's not forget, there is a very large number of people out there who are exemplary in their conduct. So, we really cannot generalize that everyone behaves badly. Hooligans are a minuscule minority, who can be found, under a different cloak, in any metropolis, anywhere in the world.
Ironically, in India, there is a different type of discrimination. Even after 48 years of independence from the British yoke, the white-skinned foreigners get better treatment in many Government offices and public places. Respect for the white skin is somehow deeply ingrained in the blood of some Indians, even now. What can we say for this?
"If somebody slaps your face, show the other cheek" -- well, it is Gandhian philosophy, not practicable for commoners like us. Only Gandhiji could practice it -- that's why he was a Mahatma!
However, let us realize that we shouldn't get perturbed by pin-pricks. It's a problem, no doubt, but not insurmountable. Let's try to get a grip of ourselves -- no point of losing one's sleep over such petty issues. If we take an overall view and try to force in positive outlook in ourselves, we can indeed bring life back to its natural balance.
Dear friends, Gulliver and Arbi, please do brush aside such minor irritation, consider them as passing clouds and get on with your good-natured selves. Rest assured, our positive good feelings are with you both.
D. CHANDRAMOULI
Jakarta