Drug addiction can be fatal

Here in Indonesia these days, I am strongly reminded of the problems faced by individuals addicted to drugs and the relationship issues that they face.

Drug addiction is recognized as a disease that is both progressive and often fatal. It is also considered a family disease as it affects everyone connected to the addict.

A drug-dependent people put their need for drugs above all else. So strong is the illness, that addicts will use any means at their disposal to obtain drugs. One tactic they will use is to borrow, beg and steal money from friends and family.

Inevitably, as addicts progressively deteriorate and as the esteem, patience and funding of the enablers begins to diminish, they are forced into using ever-more dishonest, coercive and manipulative measures to obtain funds. Addicts often promise anything -- in order to maintain their lines of credit. These promises, although sometimes sincerely meant, are rarely kept.

This behavior, unsurprisingly, leads to deterioration in the relationship between the addict and the enablers. It is important to note that by this stage, neither party is able to act rationally. This abusive relationship often continues until the enablers give up hope and inevitably detach -- leaving the addicts to fend for themselves.

Although extremely painful for both, this parting paradoxically actually marks the beginning of hope. It forces the addict, now isolated and often destitute, into accepting that he or she has a problem -- something few if any addicts will admit to whilst still actively using.

It is essential, however distressing, that the addict be allowed to reach this point. Until they realize that the addiction has dominated and damaged every aspect of their lives, and that no further support for their addiction is available, it is highly doubtful that they will sincerely attempt to recover.

Recovery is only possible when the addict becomes genuinely willing to stop using. On reaching this point, the addict will generally need to begin a program of recovery. Recovery from addiction is a possible, but difficult process. It is essential that the addict be offered support.

Approximately 50 percent of all addicts relapse after treatment, usually within the first year. However, half do recover and those who do relapse often return for further treatment and counseling, increasing the overall total of recovering addicts. There is hope.

ROSS GULLIVER

Jakarta