Drug addiction can be fatal

Drug addiction can be fatal

Here in Indonesia these days, I am strongly reminded of the
problems faced by individuals addicted to drugs and the
relationship issues that they face.

Drug addiction is recognized as a disease that is both
progressive and often fatal. It is also considered a family
disease as it affects everyone connected to the addict.

A drug-dependent people put their need for drugs above all
else. So strong is the illness, that addicts will use any means
at their disposal to obtain drugs. One tactic they will use is to
borrow, beg and steal money from friends and family.

Inevitably, as addicts progressively deteriorate and as the
esteem, patience and funding of the enablers begins to diminish,
they are forced into using ever-more dishonest, coercive and
manipulative measures to obtain funds. Addicts often promise
anything -- in order to maintain their lines of credit. These
promises, although sometimes sincerely meant, are rarely kept.

This behavior, unsurprisingly, leads to deterioration in the
relationship between the addict and the enablers. It is important
to note that by this stage, neither party is able to act
rationally. This abusive relationship often continues until the
enablers give up hope and inevitably detach -- leaving the
addicts to fend for themselves.

Although extremely painful for both, this parting
paradoxically actually marks the beginning of hope. It forces the
addict, now isolated and often destitute, into accepting that he
or she has a problem -- something few if any addicts will admit
to whilst still actively using.

It is essential, however distressing, that the addict be
allowed to reach this point. Until they realize that the
addiction has dominated and damaged every aspect of their lives,
and that no further support for their addiction is available, it
is highly doubtful that they will sincerely attempt to recover.

Recovery is only possible when the addict becomes genuinely
willing to stop using. On reaching this point, the addict will
generally need to begin a program of recovery. Recovery from
addiction is a possible, but difficult process. It is essential
that the addict be offered support.

Approximately 50 percent of all addicts relapse after
treatment, usually within the first year. However, half do
recover and those who do relapse often return for further
treatment and counseling, increasing the overall total of
recovering addicts. There is hope.

ROSS GULLIVER

Jakarta