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        "id": 1411259,
        "msgid": "women-clever-in-covering-up-extramarital-affairs-1447893297",
        "date": "1999-11-01 00:00:00",
        "title": "Women clever in covering up extramarital affairs",
        "author": null,
        "source": "JP",
        "tags": null,
        "topic": null,
        "summary": "Women clever in covering up extramarital affairs JAKARTA (JP): Women know how to cover up their extramarital affairs better than men, a noted sexologist revealed. Boyke Dian Nugraha said he was surprised by the fact that women were aware of changes in their sexual organs after extramarital intercourse. \"Women are more mature and well-prepared in this matter.",
        "content": "<p>Women clever in covering up extramarital affairs<\/p>\n<p>JAKARTA (JP): Women know how to cover up their extramarital<br>\naffairs better than men, a noted sexologist revealed.<\/p>\n<p>Boyke Dian Nugraha said he was surprised by the fact that<br>\nwomen were aware of changes in their sexual organs after<br>\nextramarital intercourse.<\/p>\n<p>\"Women are more mature and well-prepared in this matter. They<br>\neven see their doctors to have their organs examined so their<br>\nhusbands can not find any trace of wrongdoing,\" Boyke, who is<br>\nalso a gynecologist, told a meeting held by a midwives<br>\nassociation in Tangerang, West Java on Saturday.<\/p>\n<p>Boyke said he rarely found men did the same in order to hide<br>\naffairs.<\/p>\n<p>He said most women, who saw him for consultation after having<br>\nsex with other partners, were under 40 years of age. The opposite<br>\ntrend applies to men, Boyke said.<\/p>\n<p>\"An uncontrolled emotional void is the major reason for<br>\nmarried people to have an affair. Those who suffer from this<br>\npsychological problem tend to ignore moral and religious values,\"<br>\nBoyke told Antara.<\/p>\n<p>He said a couple could lose their emotional ties if they are<br>\nnot aware of their sexual ability, which gradually declines.<\/p>\n<p>\"In some cases, changes in sexual organs due to age induce<br>\nmarried couples to seek other partners who they think can help<br>\nthem overcome their problem,\" Boyke said.<\/p>\n<p>Citing an example, he said men over 40 would look for other<br>\nwomen because of erection problems when having sex with their<br>\nwives.<\/p>\n<p>To make things worse, many couples lose self-confidence once<br>\nthey take on sexual problems, and overlook the good side of their<br>\npartners, he said.<\/p>\n<p>Boyke also found that some women who sought other men conceded<br>\nthey felt alienated by their husbands.<\/p>\n<p>\"About 20 percent of married women who have affairs suffer<br>\nfrom a loneliness syndrome. They say their husbands no longer pay<br>\nattention to them,\" he said.<\/p>\n<p>He said men could avoid loneliness because \"they are more<br>\noutspoken in expressing their thoughts\". (amd)<\/p>",
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